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   A lonely old man [06/09 11:23PM]   

A lonely old man
Perhaps this every life in the world needs care, especially people, the elderly.
--Remember the question

A bed, a old woman 80 years old, because " the coronary heart disease, room are quiver, in heart failure " Admitted to hospital.

  Covered with wrinkles, rickets of body on the face that she survived in the hardship of life.
Admitted to hospital she put forward the requirement that day: Arrange a person more in the ward, she is too lonely alone.
She was in hospital last year, disliked her with the ward mate of the room more, wordy. She really refuses to stay idle, flees the door in the full ward, it is always not willing to lie in bed honestly.
The doctor and nurse of disease district hear her story more than once, assist the public security department to catch the thief's story, having seen her red armband too, there is " public security men are on duty " above Four words. She is very enthusiastic to the thing of the ward, does not look like patients, like a considerate and warmhearted residents committee director. However, in doctor and nurse's eyes, she is an not obedient patient, one likes nitpicking the patient looking for a job.
Admitted to hospital for the third day, she goes to the clinic and asks reprovingly and helps her to go through director Lin who is admitted to hospital the procedure: Will not you come up when sending me to the ward and make the rounds of the wards? The medicine that the doctor of the ward used is wrong.
Clinic, and doctor of ward fine, one rod overthrow all in that place. In fact her disease takes a favorable turn day by day, a pair of lower extremities and eyelid edema have already disappeared, but she insists on saying on the face that still swollen.
Have to explain patiently to her again and again.
I just carried on that day, a doctor said to me: A bed of old women let you go, should have a talk with you.
I come by the bed, she is claiming that wants to leave hospital, say I do not make good use of medicines for her: Take three stretches of medicines each day, a bottle of water hang.
She has already been in hospital for 9 days, the condition is steady, can leave hospital, then leave hospital.
"Use some good medicines for me, OK? I live two days more. " Her request.
I force a smile, this is easy. Other patient's general requirements save some expenses for medicine and leave hospital and take medicines. She badly off, spouse die, only son too because lung cancer dies of illness, I want to save some expenses for medicine for her ...... It seems, the doctor really wants to study some psychology, vary with each individual, because people construct and manage.
The night shift of last night, I saw her after carrying on, she was angry with nurse, said the nurse walked hurriedly after taking blood pressure, there is no smiling face.
Mediate. Having had a chat about the daily life for a moment with her, will see other patients, before leaving, she holds my hands, the face is permeated with the enthusiasm of overflowing: "You will have a chat with me more. "
Evening, I sit in office putting case historying of leaving hospital in order. The nurse sits opposite to me reading, we have a chat about a few words frequently.
"Haha! " A bed of old women rushed in directly suddenly: "What are you doing? This class does not work now, but play, say to us. "
I let her sit down: "OK, please say. "
She sits down cheerfully, has started a conversation, begin to tell the story which catches the thief known by everybody vividly: "Several little young men are forcing open the door, I had not put seeing, go over, phone 110, thief prize case, 110 get they. "
" the thief is playing card, 110 comes " Stand up saying her, do expression movements as performing essay: "unless it wink 110 I, it last mouth, then not install calm, it go to " She walk up to a desk, both hands insert in sleeve bending over, at desk, turning round, washing nurse and I laugh at again in charge of, she is amusing for our quilt - -Half really smiles, half is put for her to see.
"Is there bonus after grasping thieves? " I ask smiling.
" have no bonus, there are certificates of merit, so thick a pile of certificates of merit, " She is gesticulating with hands proudly: "The public security bureau still sends a year end gift here at the end of the year. "
"That is pretty good! " I and she make conversation, my case history of favour, has wrongly written in several places shilly-shallying.
"Influence you? " She has referred to my case history. speech
"Do not influence, please say. " I am smiling, can't bear to sweep her excitement.
She continues having a chat about her son, grandson, wife, granddaughter-in-law ......
     "That day, the television was out of order, non- bad can only accept three, I really had nothing to do, sat at the window counting the person in the street, counted 180 people altogether in the afternoon of that day ..... " There is a kind of lonely look in her sight, my heart trembles gently, have experience her helpless loneliness, has experienced her miss of and son to dying, have experienced her wishing eagerly profoundly to caring about. I have understood all sorts of behavior in the ward of hers suddenly, I say to other doctors: In fact she is not evil, just hope for more care.



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